Jamilah Samian and Ahmad Fakhri Hamzah were in Doha, Qatar and Muscat, Oman in June 2013 to conduct the “Cool Mum Super Dad Islamic Parenting” course. The one -and-a-half-day course in Muscat, Oman was conducted in English with participants from Algeria, Singapore, Brunei, India, United Kingdom, Oman and Malaysia. Jamilah and Ahmad Fakhri delivered the following modules:
Module 1: MARRIAGE MADE IN JANNAH VERSUS PARENTING
The state of your marriage impacts your effectiveness as a parent. Children in happier marriages feel more secure, perform better in school and have less disciplinary issues. Learn about the five stages of marriage and how you and your spouse can become better parents by having a shared vision for your children.
Module 2: FATHERHOOD & MOTHERHOOD IN THE QURAN
Learn what the Quran says about fatherhood and motherhood and differences between what only mothers can give and what fathers can uniquely provide. This module will highlight the different styles married men and women resort to when faced with conflict and how to discover more effective ways of dealing with conflict.
Module 3: DIFFERENT FOLKS DIFFERENT STROKES ~ INTERGENERATION
It is proven that people who are born in different generations have different perspectives because of the unique experiences they go through. Find out what these differences and challenges are and how you can connect with and be an inspiration to your children despite these differences.
Module 4: SOLAH AND DISCIPLINE
Islam is all about self-discipline. The ability to wake up for Fajr, to fast without being known by anyone plus a host of other ibadah require self-discipline. Find out what discipline means, the purpose of discipline, how to implement it and the different ages and stages of children, including teenagers, in relation to discipline.
Module 5: QURANIC APPROACH TO SIBLING RIVALRY
Feelings of envy, jealousy and resentment may arise if parents do not know how to address sibling rivalry among children. Learn how you can raise children who are proud of each other’s achievements and work together, instead of against one another for the sake of the Muslim ummah.
Module 6: PERSONAL ACTION PLAN
A summary of what you have learnt and how to incorporate it in your life in a positive way to make lifelong changes to help bring your entire family to the FINAL DESTINATION – JANNAH.
In Doha, Qatar, the course was conducted in Malay with the following modules:
Modul 1: BAHAGIA HINGGA KE SYURGA
Adakah rumahtangga anda bahagia? Suasana rumahtangga besar pengaruhnya ke atas keupayaan anda mendidik anak. Ketahui lima fasa perkahwinan dan bagaimana anda dan pasangan boleh menjadi ibu bapa berjaya dengan terciptanya wawasan istimewa seisi keluarga.
Modul 2: IBU & AYAH DALAM ALQURAN
Bapa adalah ketua keluarga. Separuh daripada masalah mendidik anak akan selesai seandainya kaum bapa berjaya memimpin seisi keluarga berdasarkan lunas-lunas Islam. Apakah yang diperkatakan oleh AlQuran tentang peranan ibu dan bapa? Juga kenali stail anda menghadapi saat-saat konflik dan cara lebih mantap mengendalinya.
Modul 3: MEMAHAMI INSAN INTERGENERASI
Insan yang dilahirkan dalam generasi berbeza terbukti mempunyai citarasa dan perspektif berbeza kerana pelbagai pengalaman unik yang dilaluinya. Sulami perbezaan dan cabaran berkaitan insan intergenerasi dan cara-cara mengatasinya.
Modul 4: SOLAT & DISIPLIN
Islam bertitik tolak pada disiplin. Bangun di waktu Fajr, berpuasa tanpa dipaksa dan apa juga ibadah mudah ditunaikan dengan adanya disiplin. Selami erti kata disiplin dan kaedah efektif mendidik anak berdisiplin. Juga membincangkan cabaran mendidik remaja.
Modul 5: PERMUSUHAN ADIK-BERADIK – MENYELAMI KAEDAH ALQURAN
Emosi iri hati dan dengki di kalangan adik-beradik mudah timbul jika ibu bapa kurang bijak mengendalikan perhubungan sesama anak-anak. Fahami bagaimana anda boleh mendidik anak-anak yang saling bantu-membantu satu sama lain demi kemaslahatan umat Islam sejagat.
Modul 6: JANNAH IMPIAN ANDA
Rumusan dan pelan tindakan peribadi. Bagaimana anda melakar saat-saat kehidupan seterusnya secara positif demi merealisasi SYURGA NAN ABADI seiring bersama seisi keluarga.
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